The Beginning

If you know me at all, then you know serious topics aren't really my thing. I thought I'd spread my wings a bit with this blog though. On that note, those of you who know me may also know that courtesy isn't exactly my thing, yet another thing I'm trying to change. So in summery, this blog is about change. Maybe I should explain why I chose courtesy as the theme of my blog in the first place.
About a month ago my mother was hospitalized to have a stint put into one of her heart valves, "No big deal they do this stuff every day" was my mindset. A few days ago though, something went wrong, and they had to take her to Vanderbilt to try a different, riskier procedure. I could have gone, but three AP classes warranted me to stay home...or so I thought.
When my girlfriend decided that I shouldn't stay at home alone. I didn't think it was a problem, but I had little choice in the matter as I was ordered to march home and bring clothes back for two days at least. I grumbled at the time, I mumbled, I complained. My girlfriend meanwhile, called her mother on the phone and explained to her the situation. Her mother, who knew quite well what it was like to have a loved one hospitalized, immediately insisted that I stay at their home.
Obviously two teenagers staying together under the same roof is never looked upon kindly which is one reason that I was surprised it was okay with her. The other being she doesn't particularly, enthuse, about our relationship. However in times of trouble, people can surprise you with their compassion and courtesy.
And surprise they do.